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Communication
Communication is vital to any relationship. Not only does it allow you to share things about yourself and your feelings, but it also allows you to listen to what the other person has to share. Communication can happen by talking, writing, emailing, texting, writing, or even using gestures.
No matter how deep the chasm, no matter how difficult the situation, it is important to keep the communication lines flowing. Be that with your spouse, friends, parents, folks, siblings or work colleagues, in order for a relationship to thrive, there has to be endless communication with each other. Understanding stems from communication because its the only way to express what youre feeling and to see the other individuals point of view.
Respect
Respect is a fundamental part of a healthy relationship. Mutual respect between both partners in a relationship lays the foundation for a strong, healthy relationship. When you respect people for what they are, you respect their feelings and act in a way that will minimize the pain that your actions cause them. If you want to be respected in a relationship, ensure that you respect yourself as well as those you are maintaining relationships with.
Forgiveness
Another essential aspect of a healthy relationship is forgiveness. Forgiveness means you are willing to let go of the past and focus on the present. It is about being in full control of your current situation. Talk about the issue at hand and try to reach a mutual agreement on how to handle the situation in the future and then commit to it. Even if your partner does something wrong or hurtful, forgive him/her. Remember, you can stumble as well. Learning from the past and not repeating the same mistake is the only way to prevent anger, disappointment and resentment in a relationship.
Anticipate Ups and Downs
Recognize that there ups and downs in every relationship. You cant always be on the same page or read from the same script. It could be that your partner is struggling with an issue that stresses him/her, such as loss of loved one, severe health problems, or job loss. Such unfortunate events can make it difficult to relate to each other. Understand that different people cope with stress differently and help them cope with whatever it is that they are going through. You can get through lifes ups and downs by not taking your problems on your partner, being open to change, and understanding that some problems are bigger than both of you.
Trust
Most of us often find it hard to trust because weve been hurt in the past. Individuals coming out of romantic relationships are particularly wary of re-opening their hearts. But truth be told, all relationshipsromantic or otherwisethrive on trust. Lacking trust means you will always have to worry about what others are thinking, doing or saying in your absence. It means having to monitor or control someone in lieu of relishing them. That is not how you want to lead your life.
Negotiation and Compromise
Negotiation and compromise ought to be present in every healthy relationship. Whereas negotiation means talking until an agreement is reached, compromise means each person giving up a little bit of what they want until both parties can reach an agreement. Negotiation and compromise realize a 'win-win situation and leave both parties happy and satisfied.
Being Assertive
Assertive individuals ask for what they want clearly and respectfully, without resorting to physical force, threats, or intimidation. They respect their own rights as well as the rights of others.
Conclusion
The best way to build healthy relationships with everyone is through staying positive. From communication and trust to respect and assertiveness, the tips in this article are all based on being a good person.
